When pressed to answer what I meant about an east coast lifestyle, I came up with that response. I wasn't intending to stereotype 150 million people, but trying to provide some insight into what I was thinking about. One thing this thread has done is make me appreciate what I do have....walking to work, home for lunch, a few acres and a cabin in the adks etc.
One thing I take for granted is being able to see my daughter (18 mos) in the am, noon and at night before she goes to bed. In the business I am in, I could commute to nyc and make 50% more than I am making now, but I'd give up seeing my daughter and I'd add a lot of stress commuting etc.
Like my generalization, james captures some truth, but also overlooks certain things. My wife and daughter and I live a very simple life. An outsider looking in would probably see skiing and our ski cabin as the only non-essentials in our life. But skiing isn't a luxury to me.
What we face is that to live a very modest house, in a safe neighborhood, to save for the future and to continue to ski - I've got to make what I'm making. Living this life here really isn't so bad, but I wish it were a bit slower, where people took more time to look each other in the eye. Maybe I overstated it after having some former east coast friends visit from the Mt Ashland area - what they've got seems pretty darn good too.
Maybe I have been sucked in, maybe not. The one thing that everyone seems to have that we don't is much debt. We've got some, but it is really minimal compared to most people I see - and they think we are nuts...."you could have this or that."
Not sure if this clears anything up but it is what it is.